Category:The Book of Wives And Relationship in HodHood Indexing

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1. Narrated Umm Salamah the wife of the Prophet Allah Messenger ﷺ woke up one night in a state of terror and said Subhan Allah How many treasures Allah has sent down And how many afflictions have been sent down Who will go and wake the lady dwellers wives of the Prophet up of these rooms for prayers He meant his wives so that they might pray . SahihAlBukhari-017-001-1264 Category:Chapter on Whoever gave judgements of Lian in the Masjid in Sahih AlBukhari
2. Narrated Ibn Abbas The Prophet ﷺ said If anyone of you when intending to have a sexual intercourse with his wife says Bismillah Allahumma jannibna sh shaitan wa jannibi sh shaitan ma razaqtana and if the couple are destined to have a child out of that very sexual relation then Satan will never be able to harm that child . SahihAlBukhari-017-001-1437 Category:Chapter on The inheritance in the case of Mulaana in Sahih AlBukhari
3. Narrated Umm Salamah One night the Prophet ﷺ woke up and said Subhan Allah How many treasures have been disclosed sent down And how many afflictions have been descended Who will go and wake the sleeping ladyoccupants up of these dwellings for praying He meant by this his wives . SahihAlBukhari-017-001-1876 Category:Chapter on Chapter in Sahih AlBukhari
4. Narrated Sahl Bin Saad AlSaidi Uwaimir AlAjlani came to Aasi m Bin Ad AlAnsari and said to him O Aasi m Suppose a man saw another man with his wife would he kill him whereupon you would kill him or what should he do Please O Aasi m ask about this on my behalf . SahihAlBukhari-017-001-3154 Category:Chapter on AlLian and divorce after the process of Lian in Sahih AlBukhari
5. Narrated Ibn Juraij Ibn Shihab informed me of Lian and the tradition related to it referring to the narration of Sahl Bin Sad the brother of Bani Saidi He said An Ansari man came to Allah Messenger ﷺ and said O Allah Apostle If a man saw another man with his wife should he kill him or what should he do So Allah revealed concerning his affair what is mentioned in the Holy Quran about the affair of those involved in a case of Lian . SahihAlBukhari-017-001-3175 Category:Chapter on Surely one of you two is a liar so will one of you repent to Allah in Sahih AlBukhari
6. Ibn Shihab said that Sahl Bin Saad AsSaidi said that the Prophet ﷺ said in the above narration If that lady delivers a small red child like a lizard then the lady has spoken the truth and the man was a liar but if she delivers a child with black eyes and huge lips then her husband has spoken the truth . SahihAlBukhari-017-001-3175 Category:Chapter on Surely one of you two is a liar so will one of you repent to Allah in Sahih AlBukhari
7. the Mahr that I have given to my wife It was said You have no right to restore any money for if you have spoken the truth as regards the accusation you have also consummated your marriage with her and if you have told a lie you are less rightful to have your money back . SahihAlBukhari-017-001-3176 Category:Chapter on The separation between those who are involved in a case of Lian in Sahih AlBukhari
8. He gave the sound dish to the wife whose dish had been broken and kept the broken one at the house where it had been broken . SahihAlBukhari-017-001-3589 Category:Chapter on AlGhaira ie honour prestige or selfrespect in Sahih AlBukhari
9. We have been told also that when Allah revealed the order that the Muslims should return to the pagans what they had spent on their wives who emigrated after embracing Islam and that the Muslims should not keep unbelieving women as their wives Umar divorced two of his wives Qariba the daughter of Abu Umayah and the daughter of Jarwal AlKhuzai . SahihAlBukhari-017-001-3591 Category:Chapter on The permission taken by a woman from her husband to go to the Masjid in Sahih AlBukhari
10. Narrated Ibn Umar Allah Messenger ﷺ said Both the buyer and the seller have the option of canceling or confirming the bargain as long as they are still together and unless they separate or one of them gives the other the option of keeping or returning the things and a decision is concluded then in which case the bargain is considered final . SahihAlBukhari-017-001-5128 Category:Chapter on Explanation of doubtful unclear things in Sahih AlBukhari
11. Narrated Hudhaifa AlAqib and Saiyid the rulers of Najran came to Allah Messenger ﷺ with the intention of doing Lian one of them said to the other Do not do this Lian for by Allah if he is a Prophet and we do this Lian neither we nor our offspring after us will be successful . SahihAlBukhari-017-001-5128 Category:Chapter on Explanation of doubtful unclear things in Sahih AlBukhari
12. Aasi m then went to the Prophet ﷺ and said O Allah Messenger ﷺ And asked him that question but Allah Messenger ﷺ disliked the question When Uwaimir asked Aasi m about the Prophet answer Aasi m replied that Allah Messenger ﷺ disliked such questions and considered it shameful . SahihAlBukhari-017-001-6707 Category:Chapter on The revelation of Allah saying Divorce is two times in Sunan AlTermithi
13. Allah Messenger ﷺ then said Look If she Uwaimir wife delivers a black child with deep black large eyes big hips and fat legs then I will be of the opinion that Uwaimir has spoken the truth but if she delivers a red child looking like a Wahra then we will consider that Uwaimir has told a lie against her . SahihAlBukhari-017-001-6802 Category:Chapter on What has been related about Lian in Sunan AlTermithi
14. Narrated Muadha Aisha said Allah Messenger ﷺ used to take the permission of that wife with whom he was supposed to stay overnight if he wanted to go to one other than her after this Verse was revealed You O Muhammad can postpone the turn of whom you will of them your wives and you may receive any of them whom you will and there is no blame on you if you invite one whose turn you have set Aasi de temporarily . SahihAlBukhari-017-001-7059 Category:The Book of Chapters on Tafsir in Sunan AlTermithi
15. Hisham Bin Urwah narrated from his father from Aisha that she said The people were such that a man would divorce his wife when he wanted to divorce her and she remained his wife when he wanted to take her back while she was in her Iddah and he could divorce a hundred times or even more such that a man could say to his wife By Allah I will neither divorce you irrevocably nor give you residence ever She would say And how is that He would say I will divorce you and whenever your Iddah is just about to end I will take you back . SahihAlBukhari-017-001-7060 Category:Chapter on Mentioning What Is Required Of A Persom Who Had Intercourse With His Wife During Her Period While Knowing That Allah Has Forbidden That in Sunan AlNasai
16. It was narrated from AlNuman Bin Bashir that the Messenger of Allah said concerning a man who had intercourse with his wife slave woman If she let him do that I will flog him with one hundred stripes and if she did not let him do that I will stone him to death . SunanAlTermithi-017-001-7954 Category:Chapter on Divorce Without The Iddah And What Is Counted As A Divorce in Sunan AlNasai
17. When Hudhaifa came from Umar he sat down to narrate to us and said Verily yesterday when I was sitting with the Commander of the believers he asked his companions When amongst you retains in his memory the utterance of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ with regard to the turmoil and he cited the hadith like the hadith narrated on the authority of Abu Khalid but he did not mention the exposition of his words Murbaddan and Mujakhiyan . SunanAlNasai-017-001-14970 Category:Chapter on Giving ones wife the choice does not count as a divorce unless it is intended as such in Sahih Muslim
18. It was upon this that Abu Huraira reported that Abul Qasim the Holy Prophet ﷺ said The members of the first group to get into Paradise would have their faces as bright as full moon during the night and the next to this group would have their faces as bright as the shining stars in the sky and every person would have two wives and the marrow of their shanks would glimmer beneath the flesh and there would be none without a wife in Paradise . SunanAlNasai-017-001-14970 Category:Chapter on Giving ones wife the choice does not count as a divorce unless it is intended as such in Sahih Muslim
19. When Aasi m came back to his family Uwaimir came to him and said Aasi m what did Allah Messenger ﷺ say to you Aasi m said to Uwaimir You did not bring something good . SunanAlNasai-017-001-14971 Category:Chapter on Ila Keeping away from ones wives and giving them the choice And the saying of Allah The Most High But if you help one another against him in Sahih Muslim
20. Umm AlFadl reported A bedouin came to Allah Apostle ﷺ when he was in my house and said Allah Apostle I have had a wife and I married another besides her and my first wife claimed that she had suckled once or twice my newly married wife thereupon Allah Apostle ﷺ said One suckling or two do not make the marriage unlawful . SahihMuslim-017-001-18659 Category:Chapter on The fasting is valid for the one who is Junub when dawn comes in Sahih Muslim
21. I however do not like that he should come to me whereupon Aisha Allah be pleased with her said Dont you see in Allah Messenger ﷺ a model for you She also said The wife of Abu Hudhaifa said Messenger of Allah Salim comes to me and now he is a grown up person and there is something that rankles in the mind of Abu Hudhaifa about him whereupon Allah Messenger ﷺ said Suckle him so that he may become your foster child and thus he may be able to come to you freely . SahihMuslim-017-001-18839 Category:Chapter on Touching a menstruating woman above the izar waist wrapper in Sahih Muslim
22. Umar Allah be pleased with him asked Allah Apostle ﷺ and he commanded him Abdullah Bin Umar to have her back and then allow her respite until she enters the period of the second menses and then allow her respite until she is purified then divorce her finally before touching her having a sexual intercourse with her for that is the prescribed period which Allah commanded to be kept in view for divorcing the women . SahihMuslim-017-001-20205 Category:Chapter on Regarding Intercourse in Sunan Abu Dawoud
23. When Ibn Umar Allah be pleased with them was asked about the person who divorces his wife in the state of menses he said If you pronounced one divorce or two Allah Messenger ﷺ had commanded him to take her back and then allow her respite until she enters the period of the second menses and then allow her respite until she is purified and then divorce her finally before touching her having a sexual intercourse with her and if you have pronounced three divorces at one and the same time you have in fact disobeyed your Lord with regard to what He commanded you about divorcing your wife . SahihMuslim-017-001-20205 Category:Chapter on Regarding Intercourse in Sunan Abu Dawoud
24. She said that he already knew that my parents would never allow me to seek separation from him She said Then he said Allah the Exalted and Glorious said Prophet say to thy wives If you desire this world life and its adornment then come I will give you a provision and allow you to depart a goodly departing and if you desire Allah and His Messenger and the abode of the Hereafter then Allah has prepared for the doers of good among you a great reward She is reported to have said About what should I consult my parents for I desire Allah and His Messenger and the abode of the Hereafter She Aisha said Then all the wives of Allah Messenger ﷺ did as I had done . SahihMuslim-017-001-20205 Category:Chapter on Regarding Intercourse in Sunan Abu Dawoud
25. Umar Bin AlKhattab Allah be pleased with him reported When Allah Apostle ﷺ kept himself away from his wives I entered the mosque and found people striking the ground with pebblesand saying Allah Messenger ﷺ has divorced his wives and that was before they were commanded to observe seclusion Umar said to himself I must find this actual position today . SahihMuslim-017-001-21195 Category:Chapter on The Abrogation Of Taking Back A Wife After The Third Divorce in Sunan Abu Dawoud
26. I found only a handful of barley equal to one sa and an equal quantity of the leaves of Mimosa Flava placed in the nook of the cell and a semi tanned leather bag hanging in one side and I was moved to tears on seeing this extremely austere living of the Holy Piophet and he said Ibn Khattab what wakes you weep I said Apostle of Allah why should I not shed tears This mat has left its marks on your sides and I do not see in your store room except these few things that I have seen Ceasar and Closroes are leading their lives in plenty whereas you are Allah Messenger . SahihMuslim-017-001-21203 Category:Chapter on Regarding AlZihar in Sunan Abu Dawoud
27. I stood at the door of the mosque and I called out at the top of my voice The Messenger of Allah ﷺ has not divorced his wives and it was on this occasion that this verse was revealed And if any matter pertaining to peace or alarm comes within their ken they broadcast it whereas if they would refer it to the Apostle and those who have been entrusted with authority amongst them those of them who are engaged in obtaining intelligence would indeed know what to do with it iv . SahihMuslim-017-001-21516 Category:Chapter on Regarding Women Wearing AlQabati Fine Egyptian Linen in Sunan Abu Dawoud
28. The Apostle of Allah ﷺ then flapped his bands thrice twice with all the fingers of both his hand to indicate twenty nine and by the third time with nine fingers . SahihMuslim-017-001-21516 Category:Chapter on Regarding Women Wearing AlQabati Fine Egyptian Linen in Sunan Abu Dawoud
29. Abu Tamimah reported from a man of his tribe The Prophet ﷺ heard a man say his wife O my younger sister So he prohibited him addressing his wife in this manner Abu Dawud said This tradition has also been transmitted by Abd AlAziz Bin AlMukhtar from Khalid from Abu Uthman from Abu Thamimah from the Prophet ﷺ . SahihMuslim-017-001-22158 Category:The Book of The Chapters on Marriage in Sunan Ibn Majeh
30. He who expresses disapproval with his tongue Abu Dawud said This is Hishams version is guiltless and he who feels disapproval in his heart is safe but he who is pleased and follows them . SunanAbuDawoud-017-001-25067 Category:The Book of Sadaqa in Muwata Malik
31. Narrated Dihyah Ibn Khalifah AlKalbi The Messenger of Allah ﷺ was brought some pieces of fine Egyptian linen and he gave me one and said Divide it into two cut one of the pieces into a shirt and give the other to your wife for veil . SunanAbuDawoud-017-001-25067 Category:The Book of Sadaqa in Muwata Malik
32. Narrated One of the wives of the Prophet Hunaydah Ibn Khalid narrated from his wife on the authority of one of the wives of the Prophet ﷺ who said The Messenger of Allah ﷺ used to fast the first nine days of Dh AlHijjah Ashura and three days of every month that is the first Monday of the month and Thursday . SunanAbuDawoud-017-001-25092 Category:The Book of Marriage in Muwata Malik
33. It was narrated that Abu Huraira said Then the Verse of Lian was revealed the Messenger of Allah said Any woman who attributed her child to people to whom he does not belong then she has no relation to the religion of Allah and she will never enter Paradise and any man who rejects his child while he recognizes him Allah will screen Himself from him on the Day of Resurrection and disgrace him before the witnesses . SunanAbuDawoud-017-001-27325 Category:The Book of Hajj in Muwata Malik
34. Yahya related to me from Malik that Abdullah Ibn Dinar said A man came to Abdullah Ibn Umar when I waswith him at the place where judgments were given and asked him about the suckling of an older person . SunanIbnMajeh-017-001-30488 Category:Chapter on No time will come but the time following it will be worse than it in Sahih AlBukhari
35. Yahya related to me from Malik from Said Ibn Sulayman Ibn Zayd Ibn Thabit that Kharija Ibn Zayd Ibn Thabit told him that he was sitting with Zayd Ibn Thabit when Muhammad Ibn Abi Atiq came to him with his eyes brimming with tears . SunanIbnMajeh-017-001-30488 Category:Chapter on No time will come but the time following it will be worse than it in Sahih AlBukhari
36. If he pronounced dhihar and then did kaffara and then pronounced dhihar after he had done the kaffara he had to do kaffara again . MuwataMalik-017-001-34788 Category:Chapter on Surely one of you two is a liar so will one of you repent to Allah in Sahih AlBukhari
37. When she comes in to him in his room and he says I have not had intercourse with her and she says He had intercourse with me she is believed . MuwataMalik-017-001-35209 Category:Chapter on The decision of the Prophet not to share the beds with his wives and to stay away in Sahih AlBukhari
38. Malik said I have heard people of knowledge saying that the kaffara specified by the Messenger of Allah may Allah bless him and grant him peace for a man who has intercourse with his wife during the day in Ramadan is not due from someone who on a day when he is making up the fast of Ramadan breaks his fast by having intercourse with his wife or whatever . MuwataMalik-017-001-35214 Category:Chapter on AlGhaira ie honour prestige or selfrespect in Sahih AlBukhari
39. Maliksaid Payment of all types of kaffara of zakat Alfitr and of the zakat on grains for which a tenth or a twentieth is due is made using the smaller mudd which is the mudd of the Prophet may Allah bless him and grant him peace except in the case of dhihar divorce when the kaffara is paid using the mudd of Hisham which is the larger mudd . MuwataMalik-017-001-35214 Category:Chapter on AlGhaira ie honour prestige or selfrespect in Sahih AlBukhari

Most Postive Sentiment Hadith in The Book of Wives And Relationship in HodHood Indexing

Positive Sentiment may indicate a Permissible, Encouraged Actions or Sunnah

1. Narrated Aisha: the wife of the Prophet when Allah Messenger ﷺ was ordered to give option to his wives; he started with me; saying; I am going to mention to you something; but you shall not hasten to give your reply unless you consult your parents. The Prophet ﷺ knew that my parents would not order me to leave him. Then he said; Allah says: O Prophet Muhammad ! Say to your wives: If you desire the life of this world and its glitter........a great reward. 33.28-29 I said; Then why I consult my parents? Verily; I seek Allah; His Apostle and the Home of the Hereafter. Then all the other wives of the Prophet ﷺ did the same as I did. SahihAlBukhari-017-001-7100
2. Narrated Anas: Anas narrated that the Prophet used to go around to his wives in a single night; and at that time he had nine wives. SunanAlNasai-017-001-14403
3. It was narrated from Atabin Yasar that a man from Banu Asad said: My wife and I stopped at Baqi AlGharqad; and my wife said to me: Go to the Messenger of Allah and ask him to give us something to eat. So I went to the Messenger of Allah and found a man with him asking him for something ; and the Messenger of Allah was saying: I do not have anything to give to you. The man turned away angrily; saying: You only give to those you want. The Messenger of Allah said: He is angry with me because I did not have anything to give him. Whoever asks of you and he has an Uqiyah or its equivalent; then he has been too demanding in asking. AlAsadi said: I said: Our milch-camel is worth more than an Uqiyah; and an Uqiyah is forty Dirhams. So I went back and did not ask him for anything. Then the Messenger of Allah got some barley and raisins after that; and he gave us a share of them; until Allah; the Mighty and Sublime; made us independent of means. SunanAlNasai-017-001-14866
4. Kaab Bin Malik narrated the Hadith about when he stayed behind; and did not join the Messenger of Allah on the expedition to Tabuk. He told the story; and said: The envoy of the Messenger of Allah came to me and said: The Messenger of Allah commands you to stay away from your wife. I said: Shall I divorce her or what? He said: No; just keep away from her and do not approach her. I said to my wife: Go to your family and stay with them until Allah; the Mighty and Sublime; decides concerning this matter. SunanAlNasai-017-001-14922
5. It was narrated from Maaqil; from AlZuhri who said: Abdulrahman Bin Abdullah Bin Kaab narrated that his paternal uncle Ubaidullah Bin Kaab said: I heard my father Kaab say: The Messenger of Allah sent word to me and my two companions saying: The Messenger of Allah commands you to keep away from your wives. I said to the envoy: Should I divorce my wife; or what should I do? He said: No; just keep away from her and do not come near her. I said to my wife: Go to your family and stay with them until Allah; the Mighty and Sublime; decides concerning me. So she went to them. SunanAlNasai-017-001-14925
6. It was narrated from Ibn Abbas that a man came to the Prophet who had declared Zihar from his wife; then he had intercourse with her. He said: O Messenger of Allah; I declared Zihar on my wife; then I had intercourse with her before I offered the expiation. He said: What made you do that; may Allah have mercy on you? He said: I saw her anklets in the light of the moon. He said: Do not approach her until you have done that which Allah; the Mighty and Sublime; has commanded. SunanAlNasai-017-001-14957
7. It was narrated that Ikrimah said: A man declared Zihar to his wife; then had intercourse with her before he had offered the expiation. He mentioned that to the Prophet. The Prophet said to him: What made you do that? He said: May Allah have mercy on you; O Messenger of Allah. I saw her anklets; or her calves; in the light of the moon. The Messenger of Allah said: Keep away from her until you have done that which Allah; the Mighty and Sublime; has commanded. SunanAlNasai-017-001-14958
8. Aisha Allah be pleased with her reported: When the Messenger of Allah ﷺ was commanded to give option to his wives; he started it from me saying: I am going to mention to you a matter which you should not decide in haste until you have consulted your parents. She said that he already knew that my parents would never allow me to seek separation from him She said: Then he said: Allah; the Exalted and Glorious; said: Prophet; say to thy wives: If you desire this world life and its adornment; then come; I will give you a provision and allow you to depart a goodly departing; and if you desire Allah and His Messenger and the abode of the Hereafter; then Allah has prepared for the doers of good among you a great reward She is reported to have said: About what should I consult my parents; for I desire Allah and His Messenger and the abode of the Hereafter? She Aisha said: Then all the wives of Allah Messenger ﷺ did as I had done. SahihMuslim-017-001-21506
9. Narrated Hudhaifa: AlAqib and Saiyid; the rulers of Najran; came to Allah Messenger ﷺ with the intention of doing Lian one of them said to the other; Do not do this Lian for; by Allah; if he is a Prophet and we do this Lian; neither we; nor our offspring after us will be successful. Then both of them said to the Prophet ﷺ ; We will give what you should ask but you should send a trustworthy man with us; and do not send any person with us but an honest one. The Prophet ﷺ said; I will send an honest man who Is really trustworthy. Then every one of the companions of Allah Messenger ﷺ wished to be that one. Then the Prophet said; Get up; O Abu Ubaida Bin AlJarrah. When he got up; Allah Messenger ﷺ said; This is the Trustworthy man of this Muslim nation. SahihAlBukhari-017-001-6707

Most Negative Sentiment Hadith in The Book of Wives And Relationship in HodHood Indexing

Negative Sentiment may indicate a Forbidden, Disliked, or Discouraged Actions

1. Abdullah Bin Amr. Bin AlAs reported that some persons from Banu Hisham entered the house of Asma daughter of Umais when Abu Bakr also entered and she was at that time his wife. He Abu Bakr saw it and disapproved of it and he made a mention of that to Allah Messenger ﷺ and said: I did not see but good only in my wife. Thereupon Allah Messenger ﷺ said: Verily Allah has made her immune from all this. Then Allah Messenger ﷺ stood on the pulpit and said: After this day no man should enter the house of another person in his absence; but only when he is accompanied by one person or two persons. SahihMuslim-017-001-20205
2. Sahl Bin Saad said The version of Mousaddad has I witnessed the invoking of curses by the two spouses during the life time of the Apostle of Allaah ﷺ when I was fifteen years old. When they finished invoking curses; the Apostle of Allaah ﷺ separated them from each other. Here ends the version of Mousaddad. Others said He was present when the Prophet ﷺ separated the spouses who invoked curses on each other. The man Sahl said I shall have lied against her; Apostle of Allaah ﷺ if I keep her.Abu Dawud said Some narrators did not mention the word alaiha against her.Abu Dawud said No one supported Ibn Uyainah that he separated the spouses who invoked curses. SunanAbuDawoud-017-001-25090
3. Narrated Saeed Bin Jubair: I said to Ibn Umar; If a man accuses his wife of illegal sexual intercourse what is the judgment ? He said; Allah Prophet separated the couple of Bani Ajlan when the husband accused his wife for an illegal sexual intercourse. The Prophet ﷺ said; Allah knows that one of you two IS a liar; so will one of you repent? But they refused. He then again said; Allah knows that one of you two is a liar; so will one of you repent? But they refused; whereupon he separated them by divorce. Ayoub a subnarrator said: Amr Bin Dinar said to me; In the narration there is something which I do not see you mentioning; i.e. the husband said; What about my money Mahr ? The Prophet ﷺ said; You are not entitled to take back money; for if you told the truth you have already entered upon her and consummated your marriage with her and if you are a liar then you are less entitled to take it back. SahihAlBukhari-017-001-3212
4. Umar Bin AlKhattab Allah be pleased with him reported: When Allah Apostle ﷺ kept himself away from his wives; I entered the Masjid; and found people striking the ground with pebblesand saying: Allah Messenger ﷺ has divorced his wives; and that was before they were commanded to observe seclusion Umar said to himself: I must find this actual position today. So I went to Aisha Allah be pleased with her and said to her : Daughter of Abu Bakr; have you gone to the extent of giving trouble to Allah Messenger ﷺ ? Thereupon she said: Son of AlKhattab; you have nothing to do with me; and I have nothing to do with you. You should look to your own receptacle. He Umar said: I visited Hafsa daughter of Umar; and said to her: Hafsa; the news has reached me that you cause Allah Messenger ﷺ trouble. You know that Allah Messenger ﷺ does not love you; and had I not been your father he would have divorced you. On hearing this she wept bitterly. I said to her: Where is Allah Messenger ﷺ ? Shesaid: He is in the attic room. I went in and found Rabah; the servant of Allah Messenger ﷺ ; sitting on the thresholds of the window dangling his feet on the hollow wood of the date-palm with the help of which Allah Messenger ﷺ climbed to the apartment and came down. I cried: 0 Rabah; seek permission for me from Allah Messenger way ﷺ. Rabah cast a glance at the apartment and then looked toward me but said nothing. I again said: Rabah; seek permission for me from Allah Messenger ﷺ. Rabah looked towards the apartment and then cast a glance at me; but said nothig. I then raised my voice and said: 0 Rabah; seek permission for me from Allah Messenger ﷺ. I think that Allah Messenger ﷺ is under the impression that I have come for the sake of Hafsa. By Allah; if Allah Messenger ﷺ would command me to strike her neck; I would certainly strike her neck. I raised my voice and he pointed me to climb up and get into his apartment. I visited Allah Messenger ﷺ ; and he was lying on a mat. I sat down and he drew up his lower garment over him and he had nothing else over him; and that the mat had left its marks on his sides. I looked with my eyes in the store room of Allah Messenger ﷺ. I found only a handful of barley equal to one sa and an equal quantity of the leaves of Mimosa Flava placed in the nook of the cell; and a semi-tanned leather bag hanging in one side ; and I was moved to tears on seeing this extremely austere living of the Holy Piophet ; and he said: Ibn AlKhattab; what wakes you weep? I said: Apostle of Allah; why should I not shed tears? This mat has left its marks on your sides and I do not see in your store room except these few things that I have seen; Ceasar and Closroes are leading their lives in plenty whereas you are Allah Messenger. His chosen one; and that is your store! He said: Ibn AlKhattab; arent you satisfied that for us there should be the prosperity of the Hereafter; and for them there should be the prosperity of this world? I said: Yes. And as I had entered I had seen the signs of anger on his face; and I therefore; said: Messenger of Allah; what trouble do you feel from your wives; and if youhave divorced them; verily Allah is with you; His angels; Gabriel; Mikail; I and Abu Bakr and the believers are with you. And seldom I talked and which I uttered on that day I hoped that Allah would testify to my words that I uttered. And so the verse of option Ayat AlTakhyir was revealed. Maybe his Lord; if he divorce you; will give him in your place wives better than you... Ixv. 5. And if you back up one another against him; then surely Allah is his Patron; and Gabriel and the righteous believers; and the angels after that are the aidera lvi. 4. And it was Aisha; daughter of Abu Bakr; and Hafsa who had prevailed upon all the wives of Allah Prophet way ﷺ for pressing them for mote money. I said: Messenger of Allah; have you divorced them? He said: No. I said: Messenger of Allah; I entered the Masjid and found the Muslims playing with pebbles absorbed in thought and saying: Allah Messenger has divorced his wives. Should I get down and inform there that you have not divorced them? He said: Yes; if you so like. And I went on talking to him until I found the signs of anger disappeared on his face and his seriousness was changed to a happy mood and as a result thereof his face had the natural tranquillity upon it and he laughed and his teeth were the most charming among the teeth of all people. Then Allah Apostle ﷺ climbed down and I also climbed down and catching hold of the wood of the palm-tree and Allah Messenger ﷺ came down with such ease as if he was walking on the ground; not touching anything with his hand to get support. I said: Messenger of Allah; you remained in your apartment for twenty-nine days. He said: At times the month consists of twenty-nine days. I stood at the door of the Masjid and I called out at the top of my voice: The Messenger of Allah ﷺ has not divorced his wives and it was on this occasion that this verse was revealed: And if any matter pertaining to peace or alarm comes within their ken; they broadcast it; whereas; if they would refer it to the Apostle and those who have been entrusted with authority amongst them; those of them who are engaged in obtaining intelligence would indeed know what to do with it iv 83. And it was I who understood this matter; and Allah revealed the verse pertaining to option given to the Prophet ﷺ in regard to the retaining or divorcing of his wives. SahihMuslim-017-001-21516
5. Narrated Ibn Umar: A man and his wife had a case of Lian or Mulaana during the lifetime of the Prophet ﷺ and the man denied the paternity of her child. The Prophet ﷺ gave his verdict for their separation divorce and then the child was regarded as belonging to the wife only. SahihAlBukhari-017-001-1703
6. Aisha the wife of Allah Apostle ﷺ said: When there was any bereavement in her family the women gathered there for condolence and they departed except the members of the family and some selected persons. She asked to prepare talbina in a small couldron and it was cooked and then tharid was prepared and it was poured over talbina; then she said: Eat it; for I heard Allah Messenger may peade be upon him as saying: Talbina gives comfort to the aggrieved heart and it lessens grief. SahihMuslim-017-001-20295
7. Narrated Sahl Bin Saad AlSaidi: Uwaimir AlAjlani came to Aasi m Bin Adi and said; If a man found another man with his wife and killed him; would you sentence the husband to death in Qisas; i.e.; equality in punishment ? O Aasi m! Please ask Allah Messenger ﷺ about this matter on my behalf. Aasi m asked the Prophet ﷺ but the Prophet disliked the question and disapproved of it. Aasi m returned and informed Uwaimir that the Prophet disliked that type of question. Uwaimir said; By Allah; I will go personally to the Prophet. Uwaimir came to the Prophet ﷺ when Allah had already revealed Quranic Verses in that respect ; after Aasi m had left the Prophet ﷺ. So the Prophet ﷺ said to Uwaimir; Allah has revealed Quranic Verses regarding you and your wife. The Prophet ﷺ then called for them; and they came and carried out the order of Lian. Then Uwaimir said; O Allah Messenger ﷺ ! Now if I kept her with me; I would be accused of telling a lie. So Uwaimir divorced her although the Prophet ﷺ did not order him to do so. Later on this practice of divorcing became the tradition of couples involved in a case of Lian. The Prophet ﷺ said to the people. Wait for her! If she delivers a red short small child like a Wahra a short red animal. then I will be of the opinion that he Uwaimir has told a lie but if she delivered a black big-eyed one with big buttocks; then I will be of the opinion that he has told the truth about her. Ultimately she gave birth to a child that proved the accusation. See Hadith No. 269; Vol. 6 SahihAlBukhari-017-001-1437
8. Narrated Muadha: Aisha said; Allah Messenger ﷺ used to take the permission of that wife with whom he was supposed to stay overnight if he wanted to go to one other than her; after this Verse was revealed:- You O Muhammad can postpone the turn of whom you will of them your wives and you may receive any of them whom you will; and there is no blame on you if you invite one whose turn you have set Aasi de temporarily. 33.51 I asked Aisha; What did you use to say in this case ? She said; I used to say to him; If I could deny you the permission to go to your other wives I would not allow your favor to be bestowed on any other person. SahihAlBukhari-017-001-7103
9. Narrated Anas: While the Prophet ﷺ was in the house of one of his wives; one of the mothers of the believers sent a meal in a dish. The wife at whose house the Prophet ﷺ was; struck the hand of the servant; causing the dish to fall and break. The Prophet ﷺ gathered the broken pieces of the dish and then started collecting on them the food which had been in the dish and said; Your mother my wife felt jealous. Then he detained the servant till a sound dish was brought from the wife at whose house he was. He gave the sound dish to the wife whose dish had been broken and kept the broken one at the house where it had been broken. SahihAlBukhari-017-001-3612

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